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<p>Becoming a Single Mother by Choice using a sperm donor is a life-changing decision, and it is a journey filled with both challenges and rewards. Before you begin, ask yourself: Is this the right path for me?</p>
<p>Read more about the consideration of&nbsp;<a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/becoming-a-single-mother-by-choice-the-complete-guide/">Becoming a Single Mother by Choice</a>.</p>
<h2 data-pm-slice="1 1 []"><span class="display-3">Ways to get pregnant if you are single</span></h2>
<p>There are 3 options for single women who want to become single mothers by choice:</p>
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<p><strong>ICI </strong>(Intracervical Insemination)</p>
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<p><strong>IUI </strong>(Intrauterine Insemination)</p>
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<p><strong>IVF</strong> (In-Vitro Fertilisation)</p>
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<p>IUI and IVF are the main fertility treatments offered in clinics.&nbsp;<strong>All these options require donor sperm</strong> coming from either an ID Release or Non-ID Release sperm donor.</p>
<p>Below is a quick overview of the key differences.</p>
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<td style="width: 26.4984%; height: 41px; text-align: center;"><strong>ICI</strong></td>
<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 26.0029%; height: 41px; text-align: center;" data-colwidth="222"><strong>IUI</strong></td>
<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 27.5007%; height: 41px; text-align: center;" data-colwidth="261"><strong>IVF</strong></td>
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<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 20.0005%; height: 72px;" data-colwidth="120"><strong><span class="text-theme-blue-700">Procedure</span></strong></td>
<td style="width: 26.4984%; height: 72px;">Sperm is placed into the cervix.</td>
<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 26.0029%; height: 72px;" data-colwidth="222">Sperm is placed into the uterus.</td>
<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 27.5007%; height: 72px;" data-colwidth="261">Eggs are fertilized in a lab and then transferred to the uterus.</td>
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<td style="width: 26.4984%; height: 46px;">Not invasive, can be done at home.</td>
<td style="width: 26.0029%; height: 46px;">Minimally invasive, done at a clinic.</td>
<td style="width: 27.5007%; height: 46px;">Involves egg retrieval and lab work.</td>
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<td style="width: 26.4984%; height: 42px;">The cheapest form of <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/donor-insemination/">donor insemination</a>.</td>
<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 26.0029%; height: 42px;" data-colwidth="222">Costs less per round of treatment than IVF.</td>
<td class="ProsemirrorEditor-tableCell" style="width: 27.5007%; height: 42px;" data-colwidth="261">More expensive than IUI.</td>
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<td style="width: 26.4984%;">Those wanting a simple, at-home method.</td>
<td style="width: 26.0029%;">Those preferring a clinic and higher success rates.</td>
<td style="width: 27.5007%;">Those with fertility challenges or using donor eggs.</td>
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<h3><span class="display-4">ICI for single women</span></h3>
<p><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/faq/fertility-treatment/what-is-ici-treatment/">ICI treatment</a> is the simplest and cheapest form of <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/donor-insemination/">donor insemination</a>, as you perform the insemination yourself. In some countries, it is possible to order donor sperm for ICI treatment at home (home insemination), which is a preferred method for many single women. However, in most European countries it is not allowed to handle donor sperm without the supervision of a professional healthcare person. Therefore, single women who want to use ICI to fulfil their dream of a child must visit a fertility clinic.&nbsp;</p>
<p>If you are considering ICI treatment, then follow the link to read more about <a href="https://cryosclinic.com/en-gb/treatments/ici-with-donor-sperm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">ICI treatment at Cryos Clinic</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">IUI for single women</span></h3>
<p>IUI is &ndash; together with ICI - one of the most popular choices of artificial insemination for single women, as the treatment is cheaper and less invasive than IVF treatment. During IUI treatment, a fertility doctor inserts the donor sperm into the uterus using a small plastic tube. Afterwards, the sperm travels to the egg where fertilization hopefully occurs. Follow the link to read about <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/having-iui-as-a-single-woman-everything-you-need-to-know/">having IUI as a single woman</a>.</p>
<p>If you are considering IUI treatment, then follow the link to read more about <a href="https://cryosclinic.com/en-gb/treatments/iui-with-donor-sperm" target="_blank" rel="noopener">IUI treatment at Cryos Clinic</a>.&nbsp;</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">IVF for single women</span></h3>
<p>Single women using IVF to fulfil their dream of a child often struggle with low fertility. As IVF is a more complex and invasive procedure, most single women only use IVF if they have been diagnosed with fertility issues like PCOS or endometriosis, or if IUI has proven unsuccessful.</p>
<p>Follow the link to read more about <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/ivf-treatment-for-single-women/">IVF for single women</a>.</p>

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<h2><span class="display-3">Becoming a Single Mother by Choice</span></h2>
<p>Using a sperm donor is a popular choice for single women. At a sperm bank like Cryos, all donors are thoroughly tested for infectious and genetic diseases, making donor sperm a safe choice. You get to carry the child yourself and be genetically related, and finally, by using a sperm donor, you have full parental rights to your child.</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Step-by-step guide on how to enter single motherhood with donor sperm</span></h3>
<p>If you have decided to use donor sperm to enter single motherhood, your journey will most likely consist of the following steps:</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Step 1: Finding a fertility clinic</span></h3>
<p>The first step on your journey towards parenthood is to find a fertility clinic. Based on your medical history and current fertility level, they will determine how to proceed in order to give you the best possible chances of success. There are a lot of clinics offering their services, and we understand that it might seem like a bit of a jungle at first. If you would like assistance in finding a clinic offering fertility treatment with donor sperm for single women, our Customer Care Team will be happy to help you. We have a wide network of high-performing clinics around the world.</p>
<p><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/about-us/contact-cryos/">Contact us for help finding a fertility clinic</a></p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Step 2: Choosing a sperm donor</span></h3>
<p>Once you know which type of treatment you are having, you can begin your search for a donor. Many single women prefer a donor with similar physical or personality traits as themselves or someone they could see themselves dating. Before making your choice, it is a good idea to consider whether you want to decide on your own, or if you prefer to involve friends or family - just remember that the final decision is yours.</p>
<p>Read our guide for <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/choosing-a-sperm-donor/">how to choose a sperm donor</a> and learn how our <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/how-to/how-to-choose-a-sperm-donor/cryos-face-matching/">free Face Matching tool</a> can help you find a sperm donor that looks like you.<br><br></p>

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<p style="text-align: center;">Want to take a look at our sperm donor selection? With a free account, you can access all our sperm donor profiles.</p>
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<h3><span class="display-4">Step 3: Ordering the donor sperm</span></h3>
<p>Once you have found the right donor to help make your dream come true, it is time to place an order for donor sperm. Remember to consult your fertility clinic, as they often have a preference in terms of delivery date, quantity, and quality of the sperm.</p>
<p><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/how-to/how-to-order-donor-sperm/">How to order donor sperm</a></p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Step 4: Receiving treatment</span></h3>
<p>After ordering the donor sperm, you simply wait for the agreed date for your treatment to arrive. Hopefully, the treatment will be a success, and you will become pregnant. If not, you can try again or consult your fertility clinic to change your treatment plan. Many women will need more than one attempt before achieving pregnancy.</p>

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<h2><span class="display-3">Life as a Single Mother by Choice</span></h2>
<p>Once you are pregnant, a new and exciting chapter begins. Ahead awaits lots of excitement, preparations, joy, insecurities, and most importantly &ndash; love.</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Preparing for single parenthood</span></h3>
<p>Preparing for single parenthood shares many similarities with the preparations made by all parents, but there are specific aspects that deserve extra attention for future single mothers:</p>
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<li>Prepare as much as possible before your baby arrives. This includes not only setting up the nursery and gathering baby essentials but also thinking ahead about easy meals for yourself during those first few weeks.&nbsp;</li>
<li>Build a strong support system of friends and family to help you during pregnancy and early motherhood. They can provide emotional support, practical assistance, and the reassurance that you are not alone on this path.</li>
<li>Seek out local communities and activities designed for you and your child to participate in. Creating connections with other single mothers or parents in your area is an opportunity for both you and your child to build lasting friendships and create beautiful memories together.</li>
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<h3><span class="display-4">Being a mother to a donor-conceived child</span></h3>
<p>When having a baby as a Single Mother by Choice, your child will probably realize at some point, that some families look different than yours, and that some children have a father. There are different ways to explain donor conception to children, but a general recommendation is to be honest from the start. At Cryos, we are here to support you in this conversation. When you use donor sperm from Cryos, we provide you with a free copy of our <a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/for-parents/childrens-book-about-donor-conception/">children's book, 'My Miracle'</a>. This heartwarming and illustrative story helps you introduce the concept of donor conception to your child in a gentle and age-appropriate way. In the section &lsquo;<a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/for-parents/how-to-talk-to-your-child-about-donor-conception/">How to talk to your child about donor conception</a>&rsquo; we also offer guidance on how to approach this conversation with your child, ensuring that they feel loved and cherished for who they are.<br><br></p>

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<h2><span class="display-3">Common concerns for Single Mothers by Choice</span></h2>
<p>If you have concerns regarding becoming a Single Mother by Choice, you are far from alone. Becoming a parent is life-changing, and if you do not have someone in your life who has experienced the unique joys of single motherhood by choice, it's natural to have some concerns. Here we address three of the most common concerns and provide guidance on how to navigate them:</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><strong>Financial stability<br></strong>Financial stability is a general concern. However, as a single parent, you only have one income, causing many single mothers to worry about unforeseen bills. There are many things you can do to improve your financial stability, like creating a food budget and buying second-hand clothes and equipment.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><strong>Support from your network<br></strong>Being a single parent is hard work and many women are concerned about the level of support they will receive from friends and family. Many single women are surprised about the encouragement and support they feel from their network when discussing the possibility of choosing single motherhood.</p>
<p style="padding-left: 40px;"><strong>The relationship between the child and single mother<br></strong>Most people, not only future single mothers, worry about donor-conceived children's well-being and whether one parent will be enough. Studies show that donor-conceived children in general are doing well including, also children raised in families with a single parent. The most important aspect of raising a child is not the number of parents, but the love, support, and care a child receives.<br><br></p>

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<p style="text-align: center;"><br>We have made our very own children&rsquo;s book with a Single Mother by Choice version &rsquo;My Miracle&rsquo;, as we want to help donor-conceived families talk about donor conception. The book was made with help from Cryos&rsquo; Donor Child Consultant, Emma, who is donor-conceived herself. Click on the button to read more about the book.</p>
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<h2><span class="display-3">Personal stories from Single Mothers by Choice</span></h2>
<p>If you are still in doubt whether single motherhood is the right choice for you, it may be helpful to hear from others who were in a similar situation. By following the links below, you can read stories from Single Mothers by Choice who share a glimpse of their life and their reason for becoming a single mother:</p>
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<li><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/single-mom-by-choice-the-best-decision-i-ever-made/">Single mom by choice - the best decision I ever made</a></li>
<li><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/interview-with-single-mother-by-choice-sarah-stirk/">Interview with Single Mother by Choice Sarah Stirk</a></li>
<li><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/single-mother-by-choice-here-is-angies-story/">Single Mother by Choice: Here is Angie's story</a></li>
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<h2><span class="display-3">Resources for solo moms</span></h2>
<p>Want to read more about the journey towards single motherhood? Follow the links below for more resources for Single Mothers by Choice - both future and current:</p>
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<li><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/how-to-get-yourself-pregnant-without-man/">How to get yourself pregnant without a man: A comprehensive guide</a></li>
<li><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/7-facts-about-single-mothers-by-choice/">7 facts with statistics about single mothers by choice</a></li>
<li><a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/podcast-recommendations-for-single-mothers-by-choice/">5 podcast recommendations for Single Mothers by Choice</a></li>
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<h2><span class="display-3">Support on your journey</span></h2>
<p>Becoming a Single Mother by Choice is a path full of hope, love, and hard work. Remember, you are not alone on this journey. We are here to provide information, support, and guidance to help you make informed decisions every step of the way &ndash; just book a free call with our Customer Care Team. You can also join our Facebook community, Family Dreams, where you can get in touch with other single women who are planning or had children with help from a Cryos sperm donor.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a class="button button--blue" href="https://outlook.office365.com/owa/calendar/CryosBooking1@cryosinternational.com/bookings/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Book a free call</a>&nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; &nbsp; <a class="button button--blue button--with-border" href="https://www.facebook.com/groups/cryosinternational/" target="_blank" rel="noopener">Join Family Dreams</a></p>

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<h2><span class="display-3" style="font-size: 24px;"><br>Frequently asked questions about Single Mothers by Choice</span></h2>
<h3><span class="display-4">What is a Single Mother by Choice?</span></h3>
<p>A Single Mother by Choice is a single woman who had a child and started a family on her own.</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Why become a Single Mother by Choice?</span></h3>
<p>Women choose to become single mothers because they want to have a child. Some do so, as they were not able to find the right partner while others prefer to raise a child on their own.</p>
<h3><span class="display-4">Is being a Single Mother by Choice selfish?</span></h3>
<p>No.&nbsp;<a href="/en-gb/dk-shop/private/blog/donor-conceived-children-everything-you-need-to-know/">Donor-conceived children</a>&nbsp;are generally doing well, and these children, including children of Single Mothers by Choice, often feel like the most wanted children on the planet, as their parents have gone through a lot to have them.</p>
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<p><span class="display-6">Are you considering starting a family on your own with donor sperm? </span><span class="display-6">On this page, we guide you on the journey towards single motherhood using a sperm donor. With this, we hope to help you make an informed and empowered choice to enter single motherhood or not.</span></p>